Do you risk trying to meet someone or do you put love and intimacy on hold for weeks or even months?
New York City Mayor Bill de Blasio wasn't ready to rule out the quest for love. He got a dating question at a press conference, and said, "It is dangerous to stop living life."
He advised to do basic due diligence before meeting someone new.
"I do think it's fine to have a social life but you got to exercise some smart rules, right?" De Blasio said. "If you're sick, don't go on a date. If the date is sick, don't go on the dates."
He urged prospective lovers to err toward over-communicating about any potential symptoms, asking questions such as, "'Hi, are you sick today?'
"So the other thing is, you know, with a date, you know, you might keep a little more distance than you might have before," de Blasio added.
For those who may be starting to catch feelings but don't want to catch coronavirus, Dating.com is offering a few tips on how to spend some quality time with your special someone. The dating service's tips include watching a movie simultaneously over video chat together, or cooking the same meal together over video chat.
Netflix offers a "watch together" feature, enabling viewers in two different locations to watch the same film or show together.
And the dating app Bumble published a blog post by epidemiologist Dr. Seema Yasmin urging those on the app to avoid shaking hands if users opt to meet in person and to stay several feet away from each other.
"If you're confined to your home for days, you certainly have more time on your hands to plan a date with someone you met on a dating app," Yasmin wrote. "But should you cancel? If you're sick, absolutely."
Hinge told CNN that it prioritizes its users' safety and wants them "to feel prepared during this pandemic. We strongly encourage users to use their best judgment and be as safe as possible during this time, including following the latest guidelines from the World Health Organization."
Dr. William Schaffner, an infectious disease expert at Vanderbilt University School of Medicine, had similar advice on how to keep dating, but stay illness-free. He recommends asking, "How are you feeling? Have you had any symptoms? Do you have any fever? Are you comfortable going out?
"I think that's a reasonable thing to do," he said.
Even with bans on group gatherings,Schaffner said that dating is still an option because it only involves two people. The trick is to enjoy each other's company while slipping away from any crowds you see.
"Maybe going for a walk in the park and getting a cup of coffee afterward or a soda," Schaffner said. "So dating styles may have to change, but I wouldn't think two people getting together would be inappropriate. And you can have a conversation about that."
Italy offers a preview for US relationships
The coronavirus pandemic has reached crisis levels in Italy, and offers a preview of how the American situation could develop in the coming weeks. The dating world is no different.
Francesa Owens, a mother living with her 19-year-old daughter Antonia in Spoleto, Italy, told CNN she suffers from chronic variable immunodeficiency, and she didn't want her daughter possibly bringing Covid-19 home.
Owens told Antonia she could either live with her boyfriend or live with her.
Antonio had been seeing her boyfriend for six months, ate dinner with him every day and spent every weekend with him. But her love for her mother trumped all of it.
For awhile, they tried to keep up in-person visits at a distance.
"We used to just meet in the courtyard, but had to sit on separate benches," Antonia said.
They couldn't touch. Sometimes her boyfriend just sang to her from across the courtyard.
"I would see him every day. But I told him from now on we have to keep distance because my mom is chronically ill," Antonia said.
Then the rules got stricter, and everyone had to stay home. "I'm not seeing him at all at the moment," Antonia said.
The mother and daughter watch films and drink prosecco and tend flowers on their balcony to help pass the time. And Antonia still video chats with her boyfriend, who lives in the same village.
A long-distance relationship an hour away
Another Italian, 24-year-old Angelo di Gregorio, told CNN he met a man he liked in December and the relationship seems promising.
Di Gregorio lives in Valeggio, about 20 miles outside of Verona. His love interest lives about an hour away by car, so the pandemic's travel restrictions have put their budding romance in purgatory.
Di Gregorio said that with his job leading travel expeditions, love can be fleeting, so finding someone is precious.
"It's the first time that I feel like going forward, since I'm always traveling for work," he said.
But the country's travel ban has made seeing each other impossible.
"We FaceTime each other to talk. It seems like a long-distance relationship, even though it's not."
He says the two have placed their hopes on April 3rd, the date when the country's travel restrictions are expected to be lifted.
"If this thing is being postponed, then we don't know what we do," he said.
Coronavirus has placed dating, like nearly every aspect of life, in a state of suspended animation.
"I don't know how people can start dating right now, to be honest," di Gregorio said. "They should just postpone it. It's just too much."
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